It’s all REALLY freaking simple, just lead with love.
There are 2 questions to pause and ask yourself before you take action (read action as an ongoing pattern of thinking as well as physical practical doing:
1. Does this action/thought show love and respect for myself?
2. Does this action/thought show love and respect for other people?
If it doesn’t support both then tweak what you’re doing until it does.
Whatever the size of the action and potential consequence the principal is the same…leading with love preserves and protects our wellbeing and humanity.